I wonder if someone can really fall for someone whom they saw as a friend before.  Could it be that love gets developed?  I have never fallen for anyone and so when I get this funny feeling, I ask myself if this is what they call love.  A friend once told me that the reason why am still single it’s because I don’t do anything about it.  I let my ego take over.  That even if I like a guy I would just sit and let things happen without intervention from my end.  But then would they say the same if one day I fall for someone whom they like or loved by someone else.  Damn! I definitely wouldn’t want to be a mistress.   Not that am judging anyone but I definitely wouldn’t want to be happy and destroy a happy relationship on the way.  Like what I read somewhere, it will be better to keep your feeling to yourself if you fall for someone who is loved by someone else, especially if that someone else is a friend for at least you get to keep both of them as a friend.