I was talking to some people the other week.  It was just a random conversation when it went to a topic about one of subordiFine, I can take any feedback forom anybody and I am glad that ssomone told e about it.  nates.  I know that I needed to walk the talk however I am puzzled on how people think and judge other people.  Apparently one of my agents said that “I told her what I wanted to be but she (referring to me) just told me that I should not be late.”  And then there was this one instant were she told another colleague that “My TL is late again.”  Fine, I admit, I get late sometimes and maybe, maybe I don’t have the right to say what I told her.  But then, what does she want me to say?  If she wants to be that someone that she wants to be, then she should work her ass off right?  And she shouldn’t let what’s going on around her affect her job.  If people are going late and she hates that, then she shouldn’t go late right? Freak!  And so I pondered on what was talked about and I  realized no matter what you do and give up will not please everybody.  That all those extended hours of work that I put in each day to make sure that everything will turn out right apparently is not enough.  All she could see are my shortcomings (which I tried so hard to overcome) and interprets my words in a negative way.  How could she?  What makes things worse is that she doesn’t tell it to my face that she has a problem with me being her supervisor.  When I ask her if she has any concerns, she would just say “nah, it’s okay.”  Tsk, tsk, tsk.  I am even sacrifing my rest days, missing the tasks that can affect my own stats just to make sure that all the things that can affect their score is well taken care of and here comes a person who is complaining about my being late.  I understand that I should be a role model and should not be late when I report to work but then, why is she the one complaining.  Shouldn’t it be my supervisor who should complain about it?  I am seldom late.  And the reason for my being late is because sometimes my body couldn’t take the long hours of work any more.  I guess AMA was right.  Because of the tasks that I am missing is affecting me personally.  It is affecting my rank as a team lead, missing a lot of my sleeping hours and missing the opportunity of watching movies. I guess it is about time that I give more time in accomplishing my tasks instead of taking care of people who are not exactly helping themselves succeed.