Archive for January 15th, 2009

15
Jan

Resolving Issues

   Posted by: michy   in General

Communication is one of the most important aspect in resolving issues and conflicts.  Sometimes, we hate to admit it but talking really helps.  This is evident on the rate of suicide incidents on women compared to that of men.  I know that it’s a bit far fetch but a lot of experts believe that the low number of incidents of suicide among women is due to their willingness to talk about the problem.  So how does talking help?  They said when people talk we get to unload some of the awful feelings that we got from an incident.  This makes us feel a little better of the situation.  And through talking to other people, one can get advises on how to face ones challenges in life.  You know at times we feel that we are in too deep that we no longer know how to get out of the hole that we got stuck into?  Without any intervention or communication from the people around us, we sometimes resort to a lot of things just to get away, we lie, we get into alcohol, drugs and much worse, some of us commit suicide.  Although family intervention is crucial to any issues, one may also consider getting professional help especially if it will involve issues with drugs.  Drug detoxification is not an easy process.  And convincing someone to even consider going into drug rehab is even harder.  A good and solid communication and relationship between family will definitely be a great help.  So my advise to the families out there, start building a good and strong relationship between the family members.  And this can start on having meals together where everyone is seated around the dining table and gets a chance to talk to one another.  The sooner we start the better it would be for the family.

15
Jan

Whopeee!!!!!!!!!!!!

   Posted by: michy   in General

I finally got my internet access back.  Whew! It’s been like a month since I was not able to get online from the comforts of my home.  Crazy but I did miss sitting in front of my computer writing and reading just about anything.  Weird.  I never thought I’ll miss it that much since I sit in front of a computer for over 9 hours at work.  Hehehe…  Anyway, I would like to thank you, my friends and my fellow bloggers for visiting my site time and time again even if I was not able to visit your site ever so often.  But starting tomorrow (since am already sleepy and I can’t do blog hopping anymore) I will be spending a certain amount of my time visiting your sites.  It’s part of my New Year resolution.  Hehehe…