I was out with a couple of friends last month when a colleague said that I am the new terror on the floor.  I kinda laughed at what he said and took it as a joke.  But after giving it some thought, I ended up asking myself, is that how my agents see me?  The thought of being the “terror” on the floor would be pleasing for some and honestly, I did find it pleasing for a moment.  Which made me feel uncomfortable for I believe that people who will find such thought are power hungry people.  People who likes to impose their position on other people.  I felt uncomfortable with the thought of me liking the idea for this that there is a possibility that I am a power hungry person.  I do not want people to fear me.  All I wanted was respect the same way as I respect other people’s individuality.  But I guess I am not sending the right message across.  An agent once told me that I am like the incarnation of her home room advisor is one of those testimonies.  So how can I make things better?  How will I let them know that what I wanted is their respect, loyalty and trust not fear?